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MsLonesome   in reply to kkelbel777   on

Well not sure, how this works but I'm just going to trust Jesus! If its meant to be and

I have been there, done that 3 x. If u want 2 talk, I will listen &
I will pray 4 u.
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MsLonesome   in reply to nomoresmiling   on

Dysfunctional family: I am absolutely sick over the treatment I have had from my only son (age 42) who has

i'm sorry i don't think i responded 2 u'r last post. After reading this it was awhile ago so i guess u confronted her with this - what happened?
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

Hi, I don't remember if I told u that the new dental place I went
2 yesterday finally accepted me (& it's the ONLY "discounted"
place in this God 4saken state that offers n-e discounts @ all)
after waiting 6 hrs. All my caps (& I have many) need 2 b
replaced, I'm going 2 have 2 do this piece by piece in
order 2 pay 4 them, even w/the discount. I now have cavities
under the caps so I gotta get started or it's extraction time.
At least they accepted me, thank u Lord!

I h8 this state, but am stuck here 4 @ least
another yr. & a half due 2 tom's being stuck in this job - if he
tries 2 go n-where else, they would check his driving record &
find the DUI which stays on u'r record 4 five yrs. sigh. He could
maybe transfer w/in the company (they're nationwide) but Cali
is 2 expensive & the other states they're in r probably not desire
able states 2 live in - we have 2 look in2 that, but there's so
many other projects we're trying 2 do that probably will b put
on a back burner 4 now. Sigh again :) - U know the drill. Next is
looking in2 bankruptcy 4 both of us which is expensive.

Well I don't want 2 overwhelm u w/all my crap @ 1ns...u have u'r
own. But I'm here 4 u whatever u want 2 talk about. Good luck
w/ u'r job search.


Tty soon, have a gr8 day/nite :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

Dayum, that's a drag getting 2 work 1 1/2 hr. early, but ya gotta do what ya gotta do.
I'm proud of u :)
I was 6 hrs. @ the only discount dental place in AZ..they almost didn't accept me, but thank God they finally did. I need so much work done - I haven't been 2 a dentist in 6 yrs. almost all my teeth r caps & they have 2 b replaced. This will cost me a small 4tune & take 4ever, but it's better than dentures :)

Well, it's bedtime 4 me, tty 2morro I hope. I look 4ward 2 u'r msgs :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

That's great that now you can enjoy u'r day off now instead of feeling like a recluse & sit around & b bummed &/or spend it worrying (doesn't help) or being depressed. So u DO have the week ends off then?
Not only was my day crazy running around w/2 trips 2 the car guy just 2 sve $, ($1,800.00 job cost $50.00 + gas & the part,) but he found 2 more repairs it needs so we have 2 do this 2 more Sundays - aargh. I got home @ 9:00 p.m., went straight 2 bed & here I am @ midniite & I woke up (sigh)...hope it doesn't happen again 'cause I can't go back 2 sleep right away & have 2 get up @ 6:00 a.m., make breakfast & leave 4 the dentist after going 2 bank & b there by 9:15 a.m. (45 min. drive 2 Mesa). Well, @ least it's cheap (this time,) but wait 'till they tell me how much the rest will cost after they see the x-rays. Even w/discount it's gonna amount 2 a king's ransom. I'll just have 2 do it slowly, hopefully this will avoid a crisis like u'r hubby had. Is he better yet from that? Toothache is right up there w/earaches, I feel 4 him, hope he's okay now.
Well I'm gonna try & go back 2 sleep now, have a good day 2morro & a good nite's sleep.
Tty soon I hope. Niterzzzz
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

Hi,
I've been busy all day driving Tom around 2 get the pick-up truck he uses repaired & it was a bigger job than the guy thought, so I have 2 drive him back again 2nite 2 get it so he can go 2 work 2morro. He delivers auto parts. What a pain in the a$$ b/c we. T thought we'd kill a few hrs. & take it home. Now it may have 2 b done one side @ a time, repeating the other side next week. It's pretty far from here so the whole day is shot & he hasn't even called back 2 say come get it...it's now 5:00 p.m. I like 2 relax w/him on the weekends, not worry if this guy is gonna get it fixed in time 4 his job 2morro. He'd have 2 take the day off then & that means no $. Sigh. I just can never seem 2 stop stressing out.
2morro is the 1st of many more 2 come dentist appts. Remember we were both looking for cheap dentists the day we joined this thing? In AZ it's discount only, so I have 2 pay $69.00 2 start & after my"3-4 appt. screening, I'll b a member & can do discount work in the future. At the rate I'm going, by the time I get he $ 2 pay 4 all the teeth that r messed up I'll b 6 feet under. But it's a start.
Well I have 2 go start dinner @ get on w/this truck fiasco, so I'll say good nite & talk 2 u hopefully 2morro. Have a good nite, c I told u u'd get better sleep now that u'r working. Hope it stays that way.
4 me, I'm still up & down 3x/nite...sigh. Tty soon :) have a good day 2morro.
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

I dunno what happened but I got u'r msg. 2day but no place 2 respond?? So I had 2 mess w/it 2 get 2 respond. Nothing much exciting 2day except Tom is off on the weekends so @ lest I'm not alone all day, but we don't have a lot of $ 2 go out, so we just chill @ home. Sure beats sitting around alone all day by myself.
Do u have 2 work Saturday's? Those kind of jobs sometimes make u do that, @ least @ 1st.
It rained 2day ( hardly ever rains here...desert. [except during monsoon season.]) so it's a bit cooler. Yesterday was 80, 2day - 71 high (due 2 the rain.) soon it will b summer & it's 8 mons. of excruciating heat...116 high.- yikes.
Well, gotta get dinner started. Hang in that job. Enjoy the weekend & I hope 2 hear from u soon :) - p.s. How u sleeping now that u'r working? N-e better? It should b b/c u'll b tired & less stress.
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

Hi, I'm sorry I didn't get back 2 u yesterday, I've been catching up on stuff I've been procrastinating on & doing chores. And now it's (sigh) time 4 bed. I just wanted to wish u a happy weekend, bet u'r glad 2 b off even tho u only worked 2 days ;)
It's good 4 u 2 b working & things will turn around 4 u soon ...especially when u get that check & u get in2 the routine if working.
Sleet, so I'll say good nite 4 now. Talk 2 u over the weekend :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

Things will get better 4 u, especially now that u'll b working @ not sitting home all day like I am. Life sure doesn't go smoothly, especially nowadays w/ the economy so messed up...not like the old days when u could actually go out & find a job easily in u'r own field. My early retirement messed up my plans royally, leading me 2 the mess I'm in now. Who knew?
Pls. Don't 4get 2 write me 1ns in awhile, I know u'll b busy so I don't expect every day, but feel free 2 write n-etime u want 2 talk - I'm still here @ home all day most days brooding, worrying & bored (u know that syndrome all 2well) . But I'm glad 2 hear from u & good luck w/u'r new job & everything!
Tty soon I hope :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

Hi, I'm sorry I was so brief yesterday, I had started writing u when my b/f came home & I had 2 go out so I had 2 cut it short, but I always have time 4 u if u need me, just write & I check my e-mails frequently during the day/nite so I will respond. I am here 4 u :).
Hope u have a good day, hang in there & I hope u sleep better 2nite.
I wish there were a better way 2 communicate on this thing - u'r the only one I speak w/daily & they say don't put u'r e-mail or phone on here b/c everyone can read everything. Otherwise I would have more 2 tell you. O well, I guess this is as good as it gets & I'm grateful 2 this site 2 have met & bonded w/u...although I haven't played around on this site 2 learn much more about it, the people who responded 2 me were 4 the most part caring good people & It helps so much 2 have someone (other than u'r significant other (I thank God 4 him & my tele friends from back east), but they get sick of hearing u'r problems. But u & I know they bother us every day, so we have this sir 2 thank 4 people like yourself who will take the time from their busy lives 2 let u talk. Remember, I'm here 4 u even if u don't write every day when u start working u will probably be 2 busy/tired 2 write every day, but my prayers r 4 u'r happiness & help w/u'r daily struggles life throws us. Good luck w/that job, tty soon :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

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I'm glad u got good sleep last nite. I'm on the way out right now so I gotta wrap this up. Have another giood nite & thx. Tty 2morro. P. A. U'r lucky 2 have family that cares. Wish I did :(
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

MsLonesome

The same thing happens 2 me - well I hope u get a good nite's sleep & I'll tty 2morro.
I had a hellified day 2day @ the doctor's but I'm 2 tired 2 talk about that now, I'm going 2 bed early 2nite...I get so stressed out it takes 4ever 2 come down.
Try & relax as well, u'll b working soon & things will get better 4 u soon. I'm happy 4 u.
Niterzzzzzzz
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

Dysfunctional family: I am absolutely sick over the treatment I have had from my only son (age 42) who has

I went over to verizon from t-mobile & got 2 free phones, adding my sig. Other Tom who lives w/me 4 three yrs. to my acct. b/c his phone was a p.o.s. From cricket - not even a smart phone & it was broken. I got the same phone I already had (iPhone 4S & he got a Nokia Lumia 628 (windows). I have a Mac mini desktop & he has a Windows vista desktop on my network. B/c it was a promo, these phones r both a yr. old, & every year u can u'd grade to the next version (always being a yr. behind.)
But 2gether the bill amounts 2 what we were paying each co.
I'm sorry about u'r $ probs, we're struggling 2. Maybe sometime u can help me figure out how 2 get him health ins & what r the implications of Obamacare. I don't understand it...my ins. Is fine, but he has none...it was 2 expensive.
Well have a good nite & chill w/the stress. Worrying won't help. Try & relax...I know it's hard...remember one day @ a time. Right?
Niterzzzzzzz :)

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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

Dysfunctional family: I am absolutely sick over the treatment I have had from my only son (age 42) who has

Hey :)
Finally got the phone(s) sorted...what an ordeal.
Trying 2 rest a bit 2day. Have a nice Sunday. Tty soon :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to The Christmas Cat   on

MsLonesome

They don't list Arizona here. Sigh. But thanks anyway. I did find a discounted dental school place, but I need so much done it will take 4ever & it's costly even when discounted. I hate this state.
Kind of you to offer your advice.
Write me anytime, maybe I could be helpful to you, even if it's just to listen or pray for you. You do so much for others, I'm here for you if you ever need me.
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MsLonesome   in reply to nomoresmiling   on

Dysfunctional family: I am absolutely sick over the treatment I have had from my only son (age 42) who has

Hi, I spent the entire day backing up 2 smart phones & activating them b/c I changed providers & my "boyfriend" (I don't know what word 2 use but that sounds funny b/c he's 61) needed a new phone, so I added him 2 my acct. - I did it also b/c they had a promotion & they were FREE. But what a hassle. Plus I had 2 do my other chores, so I am not even sure if this is actually a new post from u or an old one, but after synching it says u wrote this 59 mins. Ago & it was an unopened e-mail. I know we discussed my bratty ungrateful son b/f & u asked 4 more details...if I already responded 2 this, pls. 4give the repetition, but I think it is new b/ c I don't remember u mentioning Joel Osteen. Or that u signed up w/this site on the same day 4 the same reason (dental) - how is that 4 a coincidence?
I do enjoy hearing from u of all the people who wrote 2 me I think if u lived nearby we would find that we have other things in common.
I have a friend back in N.Y. (Sadly we r forced 2 use pphone & e-mail now, but she's a huge fan of Joel Osteen & she suggested I check him out 2, so I will. I'm not a holy roller either (she is), but when all this went down, I actually went back 2 church. I have always had great faith in God, but I have been lapsed 4 many years. I am Catholic, so u can imagine what it took 4 me 2 go to confession after so long. But times have changed, & the priest was wonderful, welcoming the "prodigal daughter" back in2 the fold. It was the only thing I could think of 2 do so I wouldn't have a psychotic break - I came that close. I am doing a lot better now although I h8 what he did God wants us 2 4give, I just can't 4get - that will take time. U r right, he wouldn't blink an eye if I lost my apt. & my income as long as he got what he wanted. I will never sign those papers, so in effect I have lost my only son. And no, I absolutely did not raise him 2 b like that. Mental problems is an understatement - I will not make excuses 4 him. We haven't spoken in mons. Probably never will. I don't understand it, but I have 2 accept it - it still breaks my heart though.
But life goes on and he needs 2 do 4 himself & his new "family," I will b hated even after I die w/o a miracle. I pray 4 him every nite that he'll b okay, but I'm not optimistic about him "4giving" me 4 not signing those da#! papers.
So Tom is now my new family. We have lived 2gether 4 three years now...we have lots of other problems 2 work out but he's a decent guy (that's a step up 4 me...I have made many bad choices w/men in the past, 4 whatever reasons. Hopefully we will stay 2gether, it helps not 2 b alone 4 me @ least 4 now. Again, 1 day @ a time.
Well, I've chewed your ear 2 much, so I'll say "good nite" & hope 2 hear from u again soon. Thx 4 reading & being caring :)
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MsLonesome   in reply to crafter59   on

Dysfunctional family: I am absolutely sick over the treatment I have had from my only son (age 42) who has

Hi :)
My day was hectic 'cause I had 2 set up two smart phones (I switched 2 verizon & got 2 free phones) but it took 10 hours between the both of them to get them working. What a pain that was. Plus other chores of course.
I hope u went out w/u'r hubby...u both need a break.
I am toast so I'm gonna hit the sack.
Have a good nite's sleep & I hope 2 tty soon.
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MsLonesome   in reply to Snow Bound   on

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God bless all of God's faithful followers in need, watch over us and keep us safe and know that He will never allow us to suffer more than we can withstand.
Amen
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MsLonesome   in reply to prayer requestor   on

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Thank you for your prayers. I pray every day - my faith in God has gotten me through so many hard times. I know Lord Jesus is always with us and I praise him - thank you I will hope you write back to me again and tell me what I can pray for you. I will look forward to that. I didn't know this site is international. God bless you.
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MsLonesome   in reply to singalot   on

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Thank u 4 writing 2 me :)
Unfortunately, my family is already lost to me. My son has disowned me & he's all the family I have left..
I do go 2 church but I go alone. I live in Scottsdale & go to St. Patrick's.
They aren't all that friendly either, I had hoped 2 make friends or join community. events but nobody talks to me although I have tried (except the priest).
Where do u live?
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